Succces Mantra: Be True to yourself!

There are times when you feel frustrated, there are times you feel that something is wrong, something needs to be fixed, you feel that you’re not made for what you’re doing…That’s exactly when you need to reflect within yourself and try to read yourself deeply. 

I strongly believe that God has blessed every human being with some unique quality which he should nurture further to be the expert in that certain area. First and foremost, we should understand and accept our uniqueness.



Time to time our life gives us hints and clues to help us make out where we can grow better…where we can excel. It comes in our way many times but we as human being mostly avoid the same considering we do not want to come out of our comfort zone, we do not want to take risks, we are more attracted towards titles/designations rather than what we really are!

Take any Successful person for instance and try to see what he did in his life to be successful. One thing he would have done for sure and that is following one’s heart. You can be anything what you really believe. You can be a great communicator, an entrepreneur, a Politician, a great Cook, a creative writer and anything that you really want to be. 

It’s high time you need to stop pleasing others, stop living others expectations. You can’t be a great doctor even if you study for 10 years but do not have a desire to do so. I remember the great dialogue from bollywood Movie “3 idiots” – “Success ke peeche mat bhago, Kabil bano, Success jhak maar ke tumhare peeche aayegi” (Don’t run after Success, be talented and success will follow you).

Don’t just work, do something meaningful.

Don’t compare yourself to others as you are different, you have your own style, your own uniqueness which none has. Embrace yourself..Be comfortable in your own skin…Love yourself…

Be Yourself..Everyone else is already taken – Oscar Wilde

Stay loved..Stay Blessed

Kanchan Chadha




Stay Original…Stay Yourself!


“It takes a lot of courage to be yourself when the entire world tells you to become someone else.”

Be yourself…Be True to your soul

Just think for a second “What you want to become in your life”… “What are your goals”… “What you want to achieve”… “How do you want to look like”?

Do you want to be one like your ideal person.Do you want to be like Angelina Jolie, Madhuri Dixit, , Amitabh Bachchan, Mother Teresa, Malala, Abraham Lincoln, Beethowen or any other person.

Please remember “YOU are YOU”…you cannot be someone else so why try? You should take inspiration from them but do never try to become a Xerox copy. Learn from their lives, their struggles, their mistakes, as your life is yours…your experiences are and will be completely different from others. YOU ARE UNIQUE! So why to waste time on becoming someone else?


Realize your true self.

Define yourself in your own terms….you have your own special strengths and talents that you just need to explore and uncover!

Follow your dreams…Life is not about pleasing everyone and not everyone can be convinced on what you want to do. So if you have a strong belief on yourself and your actions…People will certainly follow…it may take some time but they will understand. Remember not to expect anything from anyone.

Learn from the past but don’t stay longer there as past is just like a dark room which would not let you see into your present and future possibilities. Remember “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.”

Stop thinking about what others think/perceive about you, it’s none of your business. People might raise eyebrows and even make fun, but as long as you can shrug and say “Hey, that’s just me” and leave it at that, people will ultimately respect you for it, and you’ll respect yourself. Yes, sometimes it will hurt when you’re teased. Just learn to ignore it.

Live in Present…love your work or find a job which you love doing….Don’t try to be a doctor if your love is in singing…You’ll never become a good Doctor neither you’ll have time for singing…ultimately you’ll regret.

Don’t Take life so seriously…Life is not a race…sit and enjoy what you’ve thankful..and move ahead in your life considering the next day is just a game…there is nothing to loose or win….Have fun..spread happiness…share smiles…

Most Importantly “Accept Yourself the way you are”….If you won’t love yourself….if you won’t like yourself…What can you expect from others????

Stay original….stay yourself….

Kanchan Chadha